Tatoo(s) On Your Breast(s)??
A young lady recently asked me what i thought of regarding the possibility of her getting a tatoo on her breast. She thought she would get a heart-shaped tatoo, and wanted to know from a neutral party who was a guy, if that was sexy or not to men?
I prefer no tatoos on anybody, especially on a woman's breasts-or arms, or neck, or buttocks, or abdomen, or legs. I think that tatoos look like graffitti, and mar a person's God given looks.
Granted, some people are not real thrilled with their God given looks. I will be the first one to concede that at times, that maybe God could have been a little more "generous" in the looks department when he made yours truly!
However, I believe that looks aren't everything. I know, that you have heard that so many times before! Yes, and beauty is only skin deep-you've heard that before too!
In no way do i believe for one second that tatoos ever enhance anyone's beauty. They detract from it.
The reality is, we are born with what we were born with.
Many people may not be aware of this verse straight out of the Bible, in 1 Samuel 16:7, "But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart."
Just so you know I am not one of those pious people that has no concept of reality in the real world, lets get down to basics.
In our modern world, many people have a tatoo somewhere on their body. You who are reading this may have a tatoo on your body somewhere.
If you are a football fan, especially of the NFL, you may find it very hard to find a player who does not have a tatoo somewhere on his body. When you look at many of the players, you usually find tatoos on their arms. If they aren't on their arms, they will be found some place else on their bodies. Not all of them have tatoos, but a lot of them do. In the college ranks, tatoos are not near as prevalent as they are in the pro ranks, but you will find them on somebody, if you look hard enough.
Many women have tatoos. Not all of them, but a lot of them.
I have seen them in most of the above mentioned places, and then some. This is not to mention toe rings, navel rings, tongue rings, and even nipple rings. Now the latter I saw on a guy, not a girl. I thought that it looked GROSS, to use the vernacular!
I have grown used to seeing tatoos as you no doubt have as well. I am still not fond of them. I am probably an old fashioned person, but i just really don't care for them.
Like i said, if you already have a tatoo, or want to get one, don't let me stop you. I am just voicing my opinion that they are not very sexy at all. They remind me of graffitti in a subway, or in a shantytown or slum area, or bathroom wall. On the human skin, they look even worse than the graffitti written on plywood, metal, or brick.
Granted, many people have scars that they feel need to be covered up, or hidden. I understand. I have a lot of compassion for people and I hate to see anyone suffer in any way. I know one lady who has the most awful teeth I have ever seen. She is absolutely one of the sweetest souls on this planet. She either can't afford a dentist, or refuses to go see one. Maybe she thinks her teeth will "right themselves" somehow. Hmmm. I am a big believer in natural healing, but that is one areas where i would seek the services of a trained professional. They can work wonders for someone's bad teeth. Trust me on that one!
Many people suffer terrible inferiority, or low self image due to their homely looks, or perceived homely looks. If you are one of those very good looking folks, have a little compassion on your homely cohorts! Remember "Honest Abe" Lincoln! Don't look down on us poor souls who weren't as blessed as you were in the looks department!
On the other hand, if you are one of those people who, on a scale of 1-10 would rank at a 2 or 3, or even a minus 2 or 3, take heart! There are a few things you can do, to improve things a bit-and it doesn't involve plastic surgery!
Here are a few things that detract from our looks over time:
1. Smoking. This is a given. Smoking makes you ugly-period! It destroys the collagen in your skin, because it uses up a tremendous amount of bioflavenoids, the C Complex. It puts carbon monoxide in your cells, blocking the uptake of oxygen. The less oxygen in your body, the more prone you are to heart disease, and cancer. Since your immune system is also greatly compromised, you are subject to other kinds of diseases. The lack of oxygen makes you age and look much older than you really are. The more oxygen in your body, the more youthful you will look, and it will show immediately in your skin. Your skin is a window to your health.
We are all going to die sometime! Yes, and you will die 8 to 10 years before the average American, and your last years will not be very fun. You may need an oxygen tank or 02 Concentrator to even be able to breathe, and the rest of your life will be spent being short of breath. That is no fun!
After years of smoking, when it comes to looks, your skin will look horrible. It will have a gray cast to it, like there is a layer of black soot underneath. You will also SMELL like the bottom of an ash can. Worse than that, you will have other very unpleasant odors about you as well. It reminds me of a sick smell-the kind emanating from a very sick individual. It can be nauseating!
I am all for freedom, and i think that smokers are getting squeezed more and more in our society. Nonetheless, smoking can also be very expensive. Its not cool, and aside from the stench of cigarette smoke being embedded in a person's body, it is a big turn off to most people who are not smokers.
2. Eating fast food on a regular basis.
If you eat fast food a lot, not only are you headed in the same direction as a smoker-an early death- your looks are also going to suffer. Fast food includes commercial hot dogs, hamburgers, french fries, and milk shakes, or frappes, as they say in New England. It also includes soda pop-diet or "classic".
Since all commercially raised beef is loaded with harmful antibiotics, and growth hormones, people who eat that meat, are absorbing all of those antibiotics and hormones. Guess what happens when people habitually eat at those places?
We are seeing young girls as early as 7 years old, being visited by the "breast fairy". By the time they get to age 11, they have a full fledged set of "knockers" on them! I kid you not! Think that is cute? Try telling that to a hormone driven teenage male of 16 that that sexy teen age girl in his neighborhood is only 11! Its not fantasy that more young girls are getting raped and pregnant before they even see their 13th birthday! Even worse, many of these poor young girls are getting abortions. Without going into any moral implications, that is a scar on their psyche that stays with them for life. Due to the unregulated nature of modern abortion clinics; the use of a scalpel/surgical knife in and around the delicate female reproductive organs causes many women who had abortions early in life, later become sterile, and unable to have a baby when they get married later on.
It doesn't stop there. Many young men are also growing breasts! Its known as gynocomastia. You read me right: Many young men, and older men are growing boobs. Please, spare me the graphic details! Let me just add strangely enough, that many of them are also going shopping more, and watching a lot more chic flics. They also seem to eat a lot of chocolate, and they start buying flowers for themselves.
Okay if you don't believe me, try an experiement sometime. Without ordering any of the fast food fare yourself, walk into a hamburger or chicken place and take a look at some of the men in there. See anybody who is a little overweight? Look at their chest. Muscular? Shucks, you don't even have to walk into a fast food restaurant to see a big guy with a big chest anymore. I am not talking big pecs. I am talking big boobs, my friend!
Going back to tatoos, let me just ask you: Is there much of anything more disgusting than looking at an obese man who has tatoos all over his arms? He usually has a couple of bags of chips in his hands, while sipping on a diet coke.
Now to pick on the women: Is there much of anything more disgusting than looking at a lady with a 44 inch chest line, who has a large tatoo on one or both of her breasts?
Usually you see these types standing in line at the checkout in Wal-Mart. I have seen a man with nail polish standing in line at Wal-Mart. It was on his toes, as well as his fingers. Now if that doesn't make you sick, i ask, What does? Nothing much should surprise us anymore, you know?
Going back to women, and I am going to get a little graphic, so spare me the moral lecture. I am a man, and I call it the way i see it.
Yes, i have been guilty in the past of craning my neck about 180 degress, to look at a woman cooking hotdogs at a hotdog stand. That is no longer seen around FL, but when it was, it was impossible not to notice. They wore very tight tops and bottoms and it was amazing how all of that "real estate" stayed inside those sheer threads.
No, I think that women look very beautiful with no tatoos, anywhere. To me, the first thing i think of, and this is a knee jerk reaction: When i see a lady with a tatoo on one or both of her breasts, I think she must be a tramp. Her elegance level has dropped several degrees in my mind. She is a lady who likes to sleep around. She is not my kind of lady. You know what? She may be a virgin for all I know. She just look like a harlot, or slut, if you will pardon my expression!
My kind of lady is my wife. She has no tatoos on any part of her body. I am satisfied that she has no toe rings, no nose rings, no belly button rings, and no tongue rings. She wears earrings but that is it. She doesn't even wear nail polish. I like that!
To summarize, if you would like to have more beautiful skin, use Young Living Essential Oils on it. Use more Sandalwood, and Cedarwood, and Frankincense, and a blend called, 3 Wise Men. Use a lot of Myrrh. All of these oils are fabulous for making your skin beautiful and youthful looking. You will get more men noticing you for your beautiful, exquisite skin tone, than you will for having a picture of a heart or any number of drawings that belong in a sketch book, or artist's painting. Ask me about some of the other Young Living Essential Oils Products that can tremendously enhance your looks.
Email me at RNOiLCouple2@yahoo.com or go to www.youngliving.com and look and see for yourself. Better yet, make an appnt for a massage and I will fill you in how you can make your skin and health better and more youthful